Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Will you still need me, will you still feed me, when I'm sixty-four!!!

My mother turns sixty-four today!! This has always been a special birthday for both of us because of our mutual adoration of the Beatles. Today I want to write a special blog just for her!
   While it is a beautiful miraculous thing, the reality is that birthing a baby is not unique. It may be special and wonderful but the hard core facts are that nearly every woman in the western world can have a baby with today's technologies (that i am ever so grateful for!). I know there are thpse that disagree but historically it has happened for thousands of years. However, while most women can birth a baby and even love a baby it takes a special kind of woman to be a mother.
    A woman who not only loves her children but does all she can to raise them to be contributing, active citizens in society. A woman who never let her own insecurities or problems take priority over raising her children. A woman who can honestly say without doubt that they did everything they could to give their children everything they needed whether that was love or limitations (depending on the day). A woman who never at any time put herself, her needs, or her wants above her children. My mother is without a doubt that person. Even if we didn't always understand it, from the moment she was a mother every action she took was in an effort to make our lives better. I have witnessed all three of us make her cry at young and old ages and yet she never loved us less or left our side if we needed her. I have stayed up all night on one of the many nights she wasn't sure if she would be a widow in the morning and heard her speak worries more for us than for her. She continues to be there anytime we call for surgeries, childcare, or just a visit.
   As an adult I have realized how essential this role is knowing friends and loved ones who did not have a mother who loved and nurtured them. I see students in this situation daily. I've witnessed it be one of the hardest things for some to move past or deal with. It is not an easy job and I know how lucky I am to have my mother. I know how extremely lucky Thomas for me to have her as an example of how to be a mother.
  So on today and everyday, thank you Barbara Ann Blanchard-Jackson. Thank you for working to make sure we had what we needed even when it interfered with your dreams for you. Thank you for taking time in the midst of cleaning and cooking to spend time with all of us, help with homework, play make believe, or read us books. Thank you for supporting us even when you don't always agree with our decisions. Thank you for sticking by us and always being the glue that holds our family together. Thank you for loving us as babies, children, teenagers (especially), and adults. Thank you for loving our children and being an active grandmother. Thank you for being the best mother and grandmother you could be.

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Too Tired for a 4 Month Pic
Four Month Update from Thomas:

Growth

Weight: 12lbs 10 oz

Length: right at 25 inches (that's right i'm over 2 feet now!!)
                               They see me rollin, they hatin, patrolin, tryin catch me rollin dirty . . .

Things I can do: I am rolling all over the place! Nobody can keep me in one place now. I am also on a four hour schedule and doing great!! I'm learning to make new sounds. Daddy and Mommy can't wait for my first word but it'll be a while.

First Day at Daycare

Things that have changed:


Still no teeth but I'm drooling all over! My new favorite is giving sloppy kisses :) Mommy is back at work so I started daycare last week. It was a rough first day but I got used to it quick and now am a pro. It helps that I am a natural flirt so all the daycare ladies love me!

Nicknames: still keeping most of my old nicknames but daddy's new one for me is Mr. Bugaloo

 





One of my new awesome hats
Big News! My cousin Camil made me awesome hats for the fall/winter to be able to wear my hearing aid :) My audiologist said she is really pleased with my progress with my hearing aid. I met my Uncle Brian, Aunt Cheryl and cousins Jagger and Ava this month!! They were fun and Jagger kept calling me Boston (kid marches to the beat of his own drum). We found out I will another boy cousin in January from my Uncle Joe, look out Elian my dad is teaching me some tricks!! Mommy's birthday is tomorrow and I get to see my Grandma, Grandpa, Nana and Papo this month! So excited!!!

Monday, August 12, 2013

Green Chili Chicken Nacho Casserole

Best thing about this recipe? Out of all the ingredients there are only three that are processed :D

It's not the prettiest thing but it sure is yummy!
It was kind of a shot in the dark but a big hit at our house so I wanted to share! Beforehand stuff at our house is that I roasted the chicken i got straight from the farmer :) last weekend and then deboned it and froze the meat in baggies. I also learned how to make the soups since I was pregnant and not supposed to eat anything in a can and now I make them and freeze them in baggies. The recipe is the way I make it with some easy ways to alter to fit your needs!!



Corn Tortillas (fried and broken up like chips-probably could use chips)
One bag Chicken (about 1/4 a chicken or a large breast)
One bag Cream of Chicken Soup (a can plus some milk is about the same amount)
large handful chopped cooked green chilies minced almost into a sauce (about 1/2-3/4 can of diced green chilies) 
cheese to coat
seasoning to taste - caldo de tomate, garlic powder, onion powder, cumin, chili powder, and salt

  1. Toss tortillas and chicken to mix
  2. Mix Soup and Chilis on to chicken and tortillas
  3. season to taste
  4. Add Cheese
Bake at 350 degrees for about 20-30 minutes 

Amazing, Yummy, and Healthy Lactation Cookies (can be made non-lactation as well)

Recently I saw a posting about yummy lactation cookies and wanted to make them. I quickly realized that they were way too difficult with too many specific ingredients for me. If I have to go to more than one specialty store or can't find the majority of ingredients at HEB it's just not worth my limited time right now! To remedy my desire I researched a few key ingredients for lactation cookies and some healthy recipes and concocted one of my own. I used this recipe from Martha as my base for the recipe.
Here is my tweaked recipe:

  • 1/2 cup whole-wheat flour (spooned and leveled)
  • 1/2 cup all-purpose flour, (spooned and leveled)
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1/3 cup vegetable oil
  • 2/3 cup packed dark-brown sugar
  • 1 large egg
  • 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
  •   3/4 - 1 cup rolled oats (not quick-cooking)
  • Seasoning to taste (I used cinnamon, nutmeg, pumpkin pie spice, and cloves) 
  • 2-4 contents of fenugreek tablets (this is what makes it lactation so if that is not what you want leave this out!) for those of you that want the fenugreek I got mine at GNC  
  • few tablespoons of Local Honey 
  • 1/2 cup of your choice nuts or dried fruit (i used some almonds and pecans) 
 Directions:
  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In a medium bowl, whisk together flours, spices, fenugreek contents (discard pill casings), and baking powder; set aside. Remember that the fenugreek adds a licorice bitter taste so you want to season to offset this.

  2. In a large bowl, whisk together oil, sugar, egg, honey, and vanilla. Add flour mixture slowly, and stir to combine; mix in oats and nuts/fruits.
  3. Roll into balls; place on baking sheets lined with parchment paper, 1 1/2 inches apart. Bake until lightly browned, 10 to 15 minutes, rotating sheets halfway through if desired.

  4. Cool at least 2 minutes on sheets, then transfer cookies to a wire rack to cool completely.

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

A Quarter of a Year and His Own Entourage :)

First Fourth of July at Grandma's House



Three Month Update from Thomas:

Growth

Weight: 12lbs

Length: well over 23 inches :)

Meeting Cousin Sophia Maria

Things I can do: laugh!! in response to people and when tickled. I'm working on extending my schedule. I've been on a three hour feeding schedule except nights since I was two weeks and mom's goal is 4 hour schedule by the time school starts and I have to go to this place called daycare. And as off three months and two days I can roll over!! Mommy says her books and websites say I shouldn't do that till four months but is anyone surprised that I'm ahead of the curve? Really people?

Things that I have 
 changed:
The noises I make have increased. I can do ummms, maas, buus, and blow bubbles!! I'm drooling everywhere and all the time! I'm almost out of my 3 month sleepers and some onesies but not all. I can also hear a lot better!! I love water! I was unsure at first but lately any pool is a good pool. Mommy is excited about this since we live in hot Texas. I got my hearing aid this month and I can tell where noises are coming from and who is making them!
My new Ponto hearing aid

Nicknames: my nicknames keep changing person by person so I thought I would add a category for them. Currently this is my list: mommy - stinker dinker, daddy - the dude (yes he likes white russians too), ompa - slamas, nana - the great one, papo - rocky, my cousins hasen and mcka'an - tommy

Big News!
I had my first vacation to Fredericksburg and visited all my grandparents on my dad's side, cousins, my tia lissa, and my uncle joe and aunt charity in Alpine. I had a great time!! I'm showing signs for teething too! We will have new adventures next month with Mommy going to work. Plus we get to celebrate my grandparents anniversary the day i turn 4 months and mommy's first birthday with me out of her belly the next day! :)
Three Months Old! Bet you wish you had an entourage this aweome!!

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Our First Step of Thomas' Journey

Thomas at 2 weeks
    I've been waiting anxiously to blog about Thomas' journey that truly began when he was born but I wanted to wait until we had fully taken the first step. Thomas was born with Stage III Unilateral Microtia and Atresia in his right ear. Microtia means his outer ear was not fully developed and Atresia is the term for the type of conductive hearing loss he has due to his Microtia.
   We found out about Thomas' condition as soon as I gave birth.  He had a meeting with a specialist and audiologist about a month later at Dell where he was given a test to monitor his Brain Stem Responses to hearing and they determined that he has a mild-moderate loss in his right ear and probably has close to 60-70% of his hearing. They also confirmed that his cochlea and auditory nerve are both fine and in tact. The way they explained his hearing to us was that if he had his eyes closed he could not tell you in which direction noise was coming from and if he had background noise he could possibly not be able to distinguish a single person's voice out of it. Microtia affects 1 in 8,000 births and has been linked to genetics. It is simply when the outer ear does not form completely and takes place in the first stages of pregnancy. Often times it does not mean that someone had Microtia in your family it could have been simply hearing loss or skin tags. However, in our case, luckily, someone does. Marco's brother Joe has a slightly more severe case of Microtia and Atresia in his left ear. We are so grateful for him because their family had this condition before and can answer many questions I had and because if Thomas has questions later he will have him to turn to on a personal level. It was something we didn't realize was genetic because no one in their family had a case of it before. But especially because of Joe were not overwhelmed by the diagnosis or condition.
Thomas' Hearing new sounds
   Thomas' first step in his journey is a hearing aid. They advocate for this because of the language and social benefits they have been proven for children in studies over the past 25 years. Although it was once thought that children with one working ear would be fine, these studies have shown that those children often detached themselves from social interactions and lagged in their language skills due to their unique types of hearing loss. That often times they were overwhelmed by too much noise or not being able to differentiate specific voices from the background noise so they avoided those situations. The type of hearing aid needed for his type of Microtia is a Bone Anchored Hearing Aid where an outer source mimics the vibrations an ear drum would receive and transmits these to a bone in the skull to create the conductive hearing. In adults these aids are attached to an anchor that is drilled in the skull as a base. In children under the age of 5 they are attached to a soft headband. This is what we got today. He has done great this morning wearing it. These are his first pictures in it.
Rocking this Hearing Aid
   His next step will be the medpor surgery when he is 4-6. There is some great information on it if you are interested from the doctor we are most interested in at the bottom. We contacted them to get basic information and discovered she can do all pre-op meetings via skype so that the only time you are with her is for the actual surgery which is wonderful for us since she is in California. This step is still years away but we are preparing as much as we can till then.
   For now we are anxiously awaiting our other stylish headbands from BAHA Headbands (https://www.facebook.com/BahaHeadband) and discovering new sounds all around us. I told Marco, if Lebron can rock the headband so can Thomas!! He promptly started calling our son LeJuan James. Let's hope that ends quickly lol!! So excited to share Thomas' journey with you all! Thank you in advance for all the support and love I know we will receive :)

facts about microtia


medpor surgery info

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Why History Matters

WARNING!!!: This is a soap box post. If you wish to not listen to a rant in favor of the importance of Social Studies to our country and in our schools do not read any further.

DISCLAIMER: I am a staunch supporter of our troops, every day, period.


   As I watched the news and coverage of the Fourth of July, I felt a frustration with our country. As I stated in my disclaimer I am a supporter of our military and the amazingly courageous men and women who choose to be a part of it. I see the positives it offers to so many and, as a student and teacher of history, the impact it has had on our nation. I think they should be applauded every day and am happy that we honor them on Memorial Day and Veteran's Day. However, the Fourth of July is not about America's military regardless of how neat it is to hear a canon in the 1812 Overture. Oh but Kim, it is about America's freedoms that our brave military has made sure we keep repeatedly and our fight for independence that our military won! No it is not. While both of those things are true and we should all be grateful for them, the Fourth of July is not about that. Granted without a military victory, made up of a very ragtag continental army led by an amazing French strategist and an American hero who never truly had a standout victory and various part-time militias, we wouldn't celebrate it like we do, it is not what the holiday honors. If it were we would celebrate October 19 (last major battle of the Revolution) or September 3 (day Treaty of Paris was signed). I also truly don't believe that that American hero would want it to be about the military because he understood the true focus. Remember, this is the same man who disbanded the army as soon as the war was won and promptly retired from public life (didn't last as we well know).
   The Fourth of July is not about the freedoms. It is not about our victory in the Revolution. It is about a group of fifty six courageous men who committed treason. It is about men who dared to stand against the most powerful nation in the world because it was wrong and oppressive. Men who brazenly declared their leader a tyrant and their obligation to rise up and remove him to the world. They recognized that it was a nation that was restricting their freedoms and that they had lost true representation to have their voices heard. It was about making a decision in which there was no turning back, either they gain independence or die. It was about men who dared to take a chance on a form of government only written about. A type of government that they had no example to go off of and that had never been attempted in the world.  A government that would never have survived had many of these same men not been able to swallow their pride just eleven years later, admit failure, and reorganize the nation through the Constitution. It is about their sacrifices.
   Not all these men signed the Declaration and went on to live happy lives like Adams or Jefferson. Some went on to fight and die in the War for Independence, some had their houses and property destroyed by the British, and some were captured, tortured, and killed for their actions. Fourth of July should be a time in which we reflect on our nation's history, making sure our nation today is something deserving of their risks. We live in a country where more people can name characters in a TV show than can name the Bill of Rights or even the unalienable rights in the Declaration. Instead of the 1812 Overture why isn't the Declaration and Constitution read? Why isn't it a day taken to remember the history of our nation rather than use military men and women to distract the rest of us from realizing what our country has become? Is it because as a country as a people we are so far from what our Founding Fathers hoped we would be? Is it because we wish to ignore that reality through distraction? Are fireworks and military pomp and circumstance a truly appropriate way to commemorate them?
   Social Studies is often seen in our country as expendable in education. After all isn't History just the easy subject the coaches who just want to coach teach? The reality is the Fourth of July is a prime example of why Social Studies is so essential to the future of our nation. The Fourth of July is about history, civics, and government. It is about understanding who those men were, why they did what they did, and why it changed not just our country but the world. To know why they felt they had no other choice but to overthrow their government. It is about what the basis of our nation requires of every citizen to ensure its continued greatness. Instead of dealing with the reality that we are ALL obligated to be informed of our rights and our constitution as American citizens, we focus on those citizens who have chosen the responsibility of protecting our freedoms and country. Honestly, why all the fuss about rights or freedoms the majority of America doesn't even take the time to learn? About a history that most learn once and forget. Why do we as a people tolerate these distractions? Is it because we don't know or just don't care? Is our accepted ignorance a respectful way to memorialize those men and all they did? Is it worth our military sacrifices?

Take a second: Can you name 5 out of 6 of the characters from Friends? Can you name the 5 freedoms protected by the first amendment? Bonus: can you name the 6th Friend? What about naming any of the other 9 amendments in the Bill of Rights other than the 2nd or the 5th? . . .